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What if we told you there was a way to make dinner parties, happy hour, or even your Saturday night Netflix and chill sesh more titillating? Wearable vibrators fit discreetly against your most sensitive spots to get you revved up and keep you there until you (or the person you hand the remote to) decides it's time to dive over the edge.
They might be less common than wand or rabbit vibes, but we think wearable vibrators deserve some serious attention. Wearable vibrators can be used during masturbation or partnered sex to provide direct stimulation while leaving your hands free to wander around you or your partner's erogenous zones.
When your hands can roam, you get more stimulation, which means more pleasure and more orgasms. We know you're excited just thinking about the hands-free possibilities, but before you run off to your favorite online sex toy shop, read on. This guide will give you all the information you need so you know what type of wearable vibrator to get.
How to choose the right wearable vibrator for you
Wearable vibrators come in as many varieties as vulvas. Many have a variety of vibration patterns and speeds. That's great since all our bodies enjoy different sensations, but choosing the right one can be difficult.
Some wearable vibrators provide only external stimulation. They fit into your underwear or tuck into your labia and vibrate against your clitoris. Some vibrators offer clitoral sucking that mimics oral sex. Since most vulva owners require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, external wearable vibes are an excellent option for most.
Other wearable vibrators stimulate internally. These toys have a dildo-shaped piece that vibrates inside your vaginal canal, which, for some vagina owners, is enough to provide an orgasm.
Many companies now make wearable vibrators that provide both internal and external stimulation. We-Vibe makes vibrators with both a clitoral vibrator and a g-spot vibrator. Try using dual stimulation vibrators during masturbation or partnered sex since there's no need to remove them for penetration.
You may also consider vibrating panties for discreet fun. Some companies market a small bullet vibrator and a pair of panties sold as a set. The panties often have a piece of fabric designed to hold the vibrator in place against your vulva. There are also wearable panty vibrators such as the We-Vibe Moxie with magnets to hold it in place.
Vibrating cock rings and finger vibes also fit into the wearable category. A cock ring fits around the shaft of a penis-having partner and some have vibrating parts that flutter against your labia during penetration. Finger vibes like the Fin from Dame fit snugly over your or your partner's fingers for added sensation during foreplay or masturbation.
No matter which vibrator you choose, be sure to use a lube that is safe for the vibrator (water-based is often the best choice). Lube reduces friction, making it easier for you to get lost in the sensation and have as many orgasms as you want.
Noise is an essential consideration for wearable vibrators
If you plan to use your wearable vibrator out in public, noise is an important thing to consider. You don't necessarily want the patrons at the next table over to know that your partner is changing vibration settings every time you take a sip of your drink.
Even if you only plan to use the vibrator while flying solo in the privacy of your own home, you don't want the sound of a motor interfering with your fantasizing or erotic audio. When you're shopping for a sex toy, go to a shop that will allow you to turn the devices on so you can decide if they're quiet enough for your needs. Many wearable vibrators offer powerful vibrations even though they are whisper quiet.
Consider a remote control vibrator
The whole point of a wearable vibrator is to have hands-free fun. Having a wireless remote control can allow you and your partner(s) to enjoy the sensations without fumbling for buttons when you want to change vibration modes or speed.
Wearable vibrators can enhance date night or even a dinner party with friends. Try handing your partner the remote control or connecting via Bluetooth and making a game out of it. Perhaps every time someone asks a question, your partner hits the button to give you a little thrill (or whatever rules you dream up).
Some vibrators offer a Wi-Fi option that works long-distance, which is great if your partner travels a lot or if you're in a long-distance relationship. You and your partner can use the wearable vibrator during phone or video sex sessions to increase intimacy.
Wearable vibrators can enhance your masturbation routine
Masturbation is the epitome of self-care. Solo play allows you to connect with your body, tune into your needs, and explore what you like and need during sex. Imagine doing all that with the added benefit of having your hands free to wander or support your body.
Wearable vibrators open up a world of masturbation possibilities. You can tease your erogenous zones while your vibrator takes care of your clitoris and g-spot. Try letting your wearable vibe sit snugly against your labia while your hands tease your breasts or stroke the sides of your neck or the inside of your wrist.
Incorporating a wearable vibrator into your masturbation routine can make it possible to try out new positions. Try using your hands to support you on a chair while you grind against your favorite toy or lie on your stomach and grind into the mattress or a pillow.
How to use a wearable vibrator with your partner
Once you've explored your new toy during a solo sesh, you may wish to try it out with your partner(s). You can use many wearable clitoral vibes and g-spot vibes during penetrative sex if that's your thing. Look for toys made of soft materials like silicone since they fit around your and your partner’s body parts.
During penile-vaginal sex, vibrators that provide external stimulation and g-spot stimulation simultaneously can increase the intensity of a vulva owners’ orgasm (and your partner may love the vibrations too!). Having a vibrator that takes care of your need for clitoral stimulation is especially helpful if you and your partner try a position that makes reaching your clit with your fingers difficult.
You can use wearable butt plugs during foreplay, oral sex, or even during penile-vaginal penetrative sex if you want to try out a bit of double penetration. A penis-having partner may enjoy the vibrating sensation against their shaft just as much as you do.
If you're looking for foreplay enhancement, try one of the wearable finger vibes or simply give your partner the remote control for your favorite wearable vibrator. If their hands aren't busy holding it in place, there will be more opportunity for them to stroke your inner thighs, wind their fingers through your hair, or tease your nipples. Playing around that much is sure to enhance your orgasms.
Get in the right mindset for pleasure
Mindset is the key to satisfying sex, especially since orgasms start in your brain. Maybe you're looking for some more inspiration to purchase a wearable vibrator, or maybe you want some help focusing your attention on pleasure instead of your to-do list. Our erotic audio is like guided meditation to activate your sexual desire while you play with your new toy.
Try listening as Quentin teases you with a new wearable present in the middle of a restaurant. When he adds his fingers under your skirt, it's all you can do not to lose control in front of everyone. If your wearable vibrator fantasy involves giving your partner the remote (and a bit of control), try listening to Hooked, where giving up control leads to intense pleasure.
Listen, light yourself up.
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