How To

In this session, Raquel Savage answers all your questions on getting started, prep, and play so you can experiment with confidence.

Sexting is like a lab for your fantasies — It’s a chance to experiment, voice your desires, and practice dirty talking without the pressure of being face to face. In this session, you’ll get erotic inspiration and instruction so you can tap into your sexiest self over text. This series was created in collaboration with texting & relationships expert, Molly-Margaret.

In this session, Yin Q guides you through the softer side of kink — think silk restraints, hot wax, and blindfolds. You’ll explore the basics of sensation play and learn how you can try it out with a partner. Don’t worry about getting any special supplies, this session is just about listening and learning before you dive in.

There’s so much focus on foreplay, but the afterglow is just as important. In BDSM, there’s a whole practice devoted to making sure it’s done right. In this session, Yin Q guides you in mapping out your aftercare practice. It's a time for you and your partner to feel safe, comfortable, and cared for after exploring new territory and pushing your limits.

Role play doesn’t have to go from zero to whips and chains overnight. In this session, Yin Q gradually guides you into a dominant headspace and helps you explore ways you can bring dominance into the bedroom. You don’t need any special supplies, but make sure you're somewhere private and comfortable before starting the session.

Letting go feels really good. But sometimes it’s harder than it sounds. In this session, Yin Q guides you through the basics of submissive role play. It’s a way of experiencing pleasure while releasing control on your own terms. Yin will guide you through a few exercises to get you into a submissive headspace before teaching you how to try it out in the bedroom. Before you hit play, make sure you’re somewhere quiet and comfortable.

Negotiation might sound like corporate speak, but in BDSM it takes on a new and erotic meaning. In this session, Yin Q guides you step by step in writing a “lust letter”. It’s a sexy way of talking kinks and fantasies while also establishing your boundaries and safe words. You'll want a pen and paper nearby, so grab those before starting the session.

Sometimes the best way to learn is to listen. In this session, Yin Q models how a negotiation conversation between a domme and sub really sounds. Listen in as they explore their desires, reveal their fantasies, and establish their boundaries.

A foot massage is a simple but powerful way to connect with your partner. You don’t need much time or any fancy supplies to get it right. In this session, an expert massage therapist will guide you through each step so you can have a relaxing experience with your partner from home.

The list of kinks and fetishes you can try is near endless. And without a guide, finding yours can feel like exploring without a map. In this session, Yin Q leads you through an exercise in identifying your kinks and fetishes so you can start trying them out. You’ll need a pen and paper to take notes, so have those ready to go before starting the session.

Sometimes self care feels like a buzzword. And if you’re stressed or struggling to connect with yourself, a face mask isn’t going to cut it. In this session, we use the love languages framework to help you identify and practice deeper ways to care for yourself.

Sometimes the most complicated part of sex is getting started. If the vibe isn't right for one of you, that can lead to a disappointing interaction. In this session, we’ll help you and your partner identify and communicate how you like to get started to each other.

There are times when you're just not feeling it, but your partner is. That mismatch of desire can be hard to navigate. In this session, we'll empower you to negotiate those moments in a way that feels empowering, kind, and open to compromise.

BDSM is a term you’ve probably heard thrown around when it comes to sex. Yin Q, a BDSM and Kink educator, helps us get to the bottom of what it means. Even if you’ve never felt drawn to these kinds of sexual practices, you may come away with some thoughts for your own sex life, or lift the curtain to a whole new world of play.

Sex Educator Tina Horn guides you through the third installment of the Dirty Talk series, where you take on taboo, reclaim language, and decide your limits.

New to dirty talk? Start to build your vocabulary with Tina Horn, a writer and educator who has led workshops on sexuality across the U.S. You'll talk about what makes dirty talk great, and learn to identify nouns, adjectives, and verbs about your own body (and your partner's) that turn you on.

In part two of the Dirty Talk series, you'll start practicing out loud. Tina Horn will guide you through sounds, words, and then phrases that will help you communicate desire, establish enthusiastic consent, set boundaries and give guidance, without ever killing the vibe!