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There’s so much focus on foreplay, but the afterglow is just as important. In BDSM, there’s a whole practice devoted to making sure it’s done right. In this session, Yin Q guides you in mapping out your aftercare practice. It's a time for you and your partner to feel safe, comfortable, and cared for after exploring new territory and pushing your limits.

BDSM Basics

Aftercare

Letting go feels really good. But sometimes it’s harder than it sounds. In this session, Yin Q guides you through the basics of submissive role play. It’s a way of experiencing pleasure while releasing control on your own terms. Yin will guide you through a few exercises to get you into a submissive headspace before teaching you how to try it out in the bedroom. Before you hit play, make sure you’re somewhere quiet and comfortable.

Submission

Sometimes the most complicated part of sex is getting started. If the vibe isn't right for one of you, that can lead to a disappointing interaction. In this session, we’ll help you and your partner identify and communicate how you like to get started to each other.

Saying Yes & No

Saying Yes

Role play doesn’t have to go from zero to whips and chains overnight. In this session, Yin Q gradually guides you into a dominant headspace and helps you explore ways you can bring dominance into the bedroom. You don’t need any special supplies, but make sure you're somewhere private and comfortable before starting the session.

Dominance

In this session, Yin Q guides you through the softer side of kink — think silk restraints, hot wax, and blindfolds.  You’ll explore the basics of sensation play and learn how you can try it out with a partner. Don’t worry about getting any special supplies, this session is just about listening and learning before you dive in.

Sensation Play 

Sometimes the best way to learn is to listen. In this session, Yin Q models how a negotiation conversation between a domme and sub really sounds. Listen in as they explore their desires, reveal their fantasies, and establish their boundaries. 

Negotiation II

Negotiation might sound like corporate speak, but in BDSM it takes on a new and erotic meaning. In this session, Yin Q guides you step by step in writing a “lust letter”. It’s a sexy way of talking kinks and fantasies while also establishing your boundaries and safe words. You'll want a pen and paper nearby, so grab those before starting the session.

Negotiation I

In this session we go beyond tips and tricks. You'll explore touch with your partner and learn what turns him on. 

Partner Pleasure

Giving 

Just because women's bodies are more complex, doesn't mean they have to be mysterious! In this session, you'll explore touch with your partner and they'll learn exactly what you like. 

Receiving 

Explore how your body desires touch in this guided meditation with Myisha Battle. Myisha is a certified sex and dating coach who encourages the quest for sexual satisfaction no matter a person’s race, gender, orientation, ability, or age.

Erotic Meditations

Mapping Pleasure

Learn to use your memory to ignite your desire in the present with Myisha Battle. Myisha is a certified sex and dating coach who provides accurate sexual information, instills pride in difference, and encourages the quest for sexual satisfaction no matter a person’s race, gender, orientation, ability, or age.

Pleasure & Memory

A foot massage is a simple but powerful way to connect with your partner. You don’t need much time or any fancy supplies to get it right. In this session, an expert massage therapist will guide you through each step so you can have a relaxing experience with your partner from home. 

Partner Massage

Foot Massage

Keep exploring with your partner in the last episode of our 12 Questions series. You'll discover your partner's desires while digging deep into your own. 

36 Questions

Part III

Play along with a partner to part two of our 12 Questions series. You’ll reveal your sexual desires and maybe even get a little turned on in the process.

Part II

Giving your partner a massage is like sending their whole body a love note. It’s a simple way to relax and connect, especially with the right technique. In this session, an expert massage therapist will guide you through the basics of a head, neck, and back massage in real time. If you have a favorite massage oil, have it nearby.

Head, Neck, and Back Massage

An amazing hand massage is the perfect romantic gesture. You don’t need a fancy setup or supplies. All you need is a little technique and the willingness to connect. In this session, an expert massage therapist will guide you through step by step so you can create a relaxing experience for your partner.

Hand Massage

In this session, Eva Kaczor creates a space for you and a partner to reconnect. Using orgasmic breathing techniques, you’ll open up and reach a more aroused mood state together.

Partner Breathwork

Connect with Breath

There are times when you're just not feeling it, but your partner is. That mismatch of desire can be hard to navigate. In this session, we'll empower you to negotiate those moments in a way that feels empowering, kind, and open to compromise.

Saying No

In this session, Raquel Savage answers all your questions on getting started, prep, and play so you can experiment with confidence. 

Exploring Anal Play 

Exploring the Basics 

The list of kinks and fetishes you can try is near endless. And without a guide, finding yours can feel like exploring without a map. In this session, Yin Q leads you through an exercise in identifying your kinks and fetishes so you can start trying them out. You’ll need a pen and paper to take notes, so have those ready to go before starting the session. 

Identifying your Kink

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In part two of the Dirty Talk series, you'll start practicing out loud. Tina Horn will guide you through sounds, words, and then phrases that will help you communicate desire, establish enthusiastic consent, set boundaries and give guidance, without ever killing the vibe!

Dirty Talk 101

Practicing Out Loud

Sex Educator Tina Horn guides you through the third installment of the Dirty Talk series, where you take on taboo, reclaim language, and decide your limits.

Exploring Taboos

Next Up

New to dirty talk? Start to build your vocabulary with Tina Horn, a writer and educator who has led workshops on sexuality across the U.S. You'll talk about what makes dirty talk great, and learn to identify nouns, adjectives, and verbs about your own body (and your partner's) that turn you on.